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Have you ever seen someone walk into a party that looked scared to death, unsure of themselves, and then watched them slink off to an obscure corner? Their body language screaming, “I wish I was anywhere but here!” Entering a room full of people that you do not know can be intimidating. I get that. Yet, your entrance is important in displaying overall confidence and portraying a strong image.

When attending a party, there are certain expectations we have of our hostess. We will enjoy and appreciate everything she has done, but we do assume there will be food and drinks. We would also like a clean bathroom and a home that does not smell like the local pet store. What some people forget is there are also expectations of the guest.

Giving a party, of any type, requires a great deal of work. If you have been fortunate enough to be included in a festive soiree, it is nice to arrive with a gift for the hostess. The typical present will cost between $15-$30, but there are less expensive things you can find at the local discount store.

Attire: Shabby Chic; Razzle Dazzle; Cowboy Couture


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Word to hostesses: when listing the attire on the invitation for your party, make it clear. Do not let your creative thoughts have you writing a description that requires an interpreter.  We do not want to force our guests to solve a riddle to understand what is expected of them. There is a phrase I like to quote, “To be unclear is to be unkind.”

There is something special we feel when we receive an invitation. It is the anticipation of a celebration, the excitement of choosing what to wear, but more importantly, it is the affirmation that tells us, “I was chosen!” We know a hostess has responsibilities to ensure her party is a success, but did you know there are expectations of the guests? And your first job begins when you receive an invitation that says RSVP.

Do you believe there is a creator behind this painting, or did it create itself? I believe if I polled 1,000 people, 100% would say, “Of course, there is a creator. That’s common sense.” Do you believe there is a Creator behind this picture? If I polled 1,000 people with the same question, stats show I would not receive 100% agreement that there was a Creator behind this picture.

People are returning to work, which means many of us will be navigating changes that would otherwise seem mundane. Elevator etiquette? Did you know there was such a thing? Below are 9 basic reminders when riding the lift. I have thrown in a few exceptions while we live in a COVID world. 

Throughout history we have seen God place people in power that made us say, “What is He thinking?” Yet God clearly reminds us in Isaiah that the way He thinks is far beyond what we can sometimes understand. In a child’s eyes, a parent giving her yucky medicine when she already feels poorly can seem cruel. “Why would Mommy make me take this?” The child lives in her “here and now” moment of life, yet the parent sees the big picture. The mother knows what is best for the child, even when the child does not understand. 

Our 4-part series on living as Christians in a political world was written in response to questions I have been receiving on knowing how to separate truth from lies, when to engage in our political system, and the most effective way to stay informed. In Part 1 we learned the biblical formula for seeking truth. In Part 2 we discussed the importance of knowing your foundation. In this post, Part 3, I will provide you with 7 practical tips I use to find truth in our news driven world. 

We are living in a time where many do not know who or what to believe. It seems our national 24-hour news media seeks ratings more than they seek truth (regardless of which way their bias leans). Many journalists receive bonuses based on how many clicks their story receives, and companies earn more advertising revenue if they can show a high click-through rate on articles. It has become too common to read endless bait-and-switch headlines.

“How do I know what is real? How do I know truth when I see it? I want to stay informed, but where do I turn when I feel every news source is somehow deceiving me?”


Giving you tips on hosting a Halloween party during COVID is sure easier than tackling subjects on news, politics, and finding truth. Yet these are the questions filling my inbox. 

Does this blog seem early? Did you know we only have 10 weeks before we move into December? It is time to start planning!
1. Decide how much you can spend. If you have a $500 budget and 10 people you need to give gifts, then you can only spend $50 a person.

Halloween in 2020 will be different than past years, but there are still ways to enjoy this festive start to the holiday season. This blog may seem early, but October 31st is only 7 weeks away! It is time to start planning. Below are my top 10 ideas for a jovial and happy start to your fall celebrations.

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When two people have been together for a while, it is easy to slip into that comfortable place and stop truly dating. Does this mean you cannot enjoy lazy nights on the couch watching a movie? Of course not. In fact, it is a nice place to be in your relationship when you get to that point. I would recommend, though, that couples change things up a bit, otherwise weekend routines can become mundane which can often lead to complacency, and complacency can be an enemy of marriage. This can prove especially true for couples that have been together for awhile. Out of curiosity, I sat down one day and wrote as many dating ideas that I could think of that two people might enjoy. Some are geographically specific, and others are only applicable during certain seasons, but I hope these will get your own thoughts churning as you come up with creative ways to continue to grow together in your relationship.

1. Play games: chess; Hive; Clue (you can find a lot of games for 2 players with a simple search)

2. Grocery shop together and cook a meal

3. Binge watch a great series: The Chronicles of Narnia, Star Wars; old classics; The Lord of the Rings (that would be an all-day binge!)

4. Visit your local museum

5. Assemble a puzzle: buy a puzzle with a picture of your favorite vacation spot that you can then frame

6. Take a dance lesson: my husband and I did this for our son’s wedding and dancing has now become a daily fixture in our lives=

7. Take a cooking class

8. Go to the zoo

9. Go to a wine bar and spend your time setting your goals together for the next 1, 5 and 10 years

10. Picnic at the park

11. Search top tourist spots in your town and pick 3 to do

12. Set the dinner table with your wedding china and crystal and have an elegant meal at home


13. Build a snowman and roast marshmallows

14. Attend your local high school musical: these are inexpensive and can be very good

15. Host an outdoor BBQ

16. Take a driving or walking tour of your local National Historic Trails

17. Attend your local high school sporting event: my husband and I love to go to our local football games to get into the spirit of fall

18. Charades

19. Bowling

20. Ziplining

21. Go to a shooting range

22. Have a slumber party at home with movies and popcorn

23. Fondue night

24. Escape Room

25. Skip dinner and have a wine and cheese night

26. Attend a rodeo

27. Go hiking and end with a picnic


28. Research local festivals in your area to attend

29. Miniature golf

30. Tubing on the river

31. Rock climbing

32. Ride go-karts

33. Restaurant hop: go to two and just eat appetizers; go to two more and just eat dessert

34. Take a painting class

35. Lay outside and gaze at the stars

36. Attend an outdoor concert or play

37. Volunteer for a charity that is dear to your heart

38. Pick pumpkins in a pumpkin patch

39. Carve a pumpkin together

40. Cut down your own Christmas tree

41. Take a tour of your city

42. Go to the midnight show at the movie theatre

43. Make ice cream sundaes

44. Decorate a Christmas tree


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45. Attend an animal show/race (nothing cuter than watching wiener dogs run!)

46. Drive to a nearby small town for lunch at the local café

47. Explore geological areas near you (waterfalls, caves, beaches, forests)

48. Go paintballing

49. Karaoke Night

50. Wine tasting tour

51. Brewery tour

52. Go to a comedy club

53. Attend the carnival that comes to your town

54. Dye Easter eggs together

55. Take a ferry ride

56. Go antiquing and then find your favorite food truck for lunch

57. Go on a scavenger hunt: you can find ideas online

58. Recreate your first date

59. Curl up in your pajamas, grab your hot chocolate, light a fire and read a book to each other


60. Go berry picking

61. Enjoy a spa day at home

62. Take a bike ride

63. Make a bonfire

64. Go Christmas caroling in your neighborhood

65. Take the 5 Love Languages online quiz, and discuss each other’s language

66. Sleep in and go to breakfast at your favorite cafe

67. Eat takeout by candlelight or picnic in your front yard

68. Cake night: make your 3 favorite cakes and eat them with a fork on the couch-no plates required!

I had fun coming up with ideas, and new ones are still popping up in my mind! Part of the enjoyment of date night is the creativity involved. If you are on a budget, come up with a list of 10 things you can do at no-cost (the above list has several). Continuing to date takes effort, but effort is required to have a successful marriage. This is especially true during the child-rearing years. Remember the best thing you can do for your children is have them grow up in a home where they witness two parents that have a healthy and loving relationship. As we all know, keeping our bodies in tip top shape takes work. Maintaining a marriage that thrives is also no easy task. Shake things up, try something new and you will keep the spice in your marriage.


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