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It is summer in Houston, and last night our bedroom A/C went kaput! My first reaction was to grumble, but then I reminded myself to “choose happiness!” I was thankful we had a guestroom to sleep in that had cool air and a fan. As we crawled into an unfamiliar bed, I was quickly reminded of the times I preached to others: “Every good hostess should sleep in her own guestroom for one full night. You will immediately see what is missing!”

Today, where we see every form of fashion on our streets, the question of men and shorts still produces uncertainty among many. There is a reason for this that is embedded in our DNA, and to fully understand we need to explore a little history.

“What are the main table manners children should know?” A common question I am frequently asked. Yet I have a tough time narrowing my answer. I pick my top three, then a fourth pops into my mind. Then a fifth. We may not all attend black-tie events, but we do all eat. Your children will one day be placed in a situation where they need to skillfully know their way around a dining table.

As we approach Mother’s Day, I would like to take a special look at the precious women in our lives that hold the title of Mother-in-law. Do you remember the movie Monster-in-Law? It starred Jennifer Lopez and Jane Fonda in a romantic comedy centered around the tumultuous relationship between a bride and her future mother-in-law. If you have not seen it, you should. It will keep you laughing but, sadly, may hit closer to home than you would like to admit.

I recently asked a group of college students these questions showing them the same photos. I had them shout out adjectives for the pictures they were viewing. For the home I heard: beautiful; wealthy; cared for; loving family; a place I want to live. For the broken-down home they said: old; no curb appeal; I wouldn’t go near it; scary; unstable.

“Rules without reason equals rebellion.” -Cynthia Grosso, Charleston School of Protocol. This could be my motto! I have a stubborn streak that can serve me well, but when it gets me into trouble, I just blame it on my DNA. No matter the reason, I am not the best rule follower unless I know why a rule was created. 

Remove your hat! Don’t set it on the table! Never let someone see the lining! Women, keep your hat on! Women, take your hat off! Ahhh…..I’m so confused!!! The old rules of hat etiquette were so straight forward, and everyone knew what to do. A gentleman removing his hat inside a building was as second nature as brushing his teeth. In today’s changing society, there is much confusion about hat etiquette, for both men and women, so let’s solve this mystery by starting with the “why” of hat protocol.

Do you find your spouse often saying, “Are you listening to me?” Or maybe you feel your child is not being an active part of the dinner conversation. If this resonates with you, it might be time to brush up on the finer points of being a good listener, while teaching your family to do the same. Below are 11 tips to help you get back on track so you can start enjoying deeper and more meaningful communication with those you love.

“Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.” (Proverbs 19:11 ESV).


When I am tired and my mind does not seem to focus on a deep study of the Bible, I will flip to Proverbs to keep focused on God’s Word in a more simplistic way. Yet, every time I read this book, I walk away amazed at the power it brings and thankful for the renewal I feel. The verse I read today really resonated with me.

As a stay-at-home mom to 2 toddlers, a large part of my day is spent in the kitchen preparing food. Meal planning at the beginning of the week is essential to ensuring my family is well fed with home cooked nutrition (I give myself a break on the weekends)! If you get overwhelmed with meal planning like I used to, try these tips to sooth your soul:

As a wife and mother of two rambunctious toddlers, it is a challenge to get a home-cooked dinner on the table at a reasonable time. Pulling the children away from their toys, getting them seated at the table, cutting up their meal, blowing on food that is too hot, and calling my husband away from his work can be exhausting.

Sometimes you just need to re-post tips that were great to read. I find myself saying this quite often when it comes to The Gottman Institute. They are some of the leading relationship experts in our country, and the research they did on trustworthiness is very informative.

Meeting friends for dinner after work, grabbing coffee with your girlfriend or just ordering pizza on a Friday night with neighbors. We all have a deep desire to be connected in a world that often forgets the importance of relationships. Many of us have the desire to entertain, but we let our circumstances keep us from extending hospitality. Often it revolves around our lack of confidence in our ability to host events. I get this!

A perfect entertaining year for me would be hosting a different themed party each month! Will I do that? No. Will I dream about it? Yes! If I cannot have a party every 4 weeks, I can at least help my Lisa Lou family with ideas so hopefully a few of you can carry the torch of hospitality for the rest of us.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for. Read that again.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for. Read that again.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for.

  • Alina Gersib

Easy Air-Fried Chicken Caprese

Happy Foodie Friday!

Air fried chicken is a regular rotation in my weekly menu as it is tasty, quick to prepare, and easy to clean up. But my goodness, the addition of the caprese elements takes the chicken dish to a whole other level! If you are a fan of tomato mozzarella salads you will enjoy this simple meal. The tomatoes become warm and even more flavorful and the cheese melts beautifully over the chicken for a delicious bite every time.

The best part of the recipe however is the bright and vibrant pesto. Pesto is one of my favorite ingredients to cook with but I typically just grab a jar at the store instead of making it from scratch. After tasting this recipe however, I'm not sure I'll be able to go back to jarred! The basil leaves and spinach pop exquisitely in this fresh sauce. I highly recommend doubling the batch while you are making as it is great topped on different things from fried eggs to toast. Overall this recipe is a 10/10 and will quickly become a favorite. We hope you enjoy!

Easy Air Friend Chicken Caprese
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Makes 4 servings

Preparation Time: 10 minutes (+24 hours marinading chicken overnight!)

Cook Time: 30 minutes

Chicken Ingredients:

*4 chicken breasts, pounded so they are a uniform thickness

*1 tablespoon lemon juice (about 1/2 a lemon)

*1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil

*2 garlic cloves, minced

*2 vine-ripened tomatoes, sliced

*8 ounces fresh mozzarella, sliced

*Sprinkle of salt and black pepper to taste

Pesto Ingredients:

*1 cup fresh basil, packed

*1 cup fresh spinach, packed

*1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil

*1/4 cup Parmesan cheese

*2 tablespoons pecans (or pine nuts)

*2 garlic cloves

*1/2 a lemon, juiced

*Sprinkle of salt and black pepper to taste


*Place chicken breasts into a dish and add olive oil, lemon juice, garlic, salt and pepper to marinate overnight, or at minimum two hours.

*Preheat air fryer or oven to 375F. Once hot add the chicken and cook for 10-15 minutes depending on thickness.

*While the chicken is cooking, make the pesto by combining all of the ingredients in a blender or food processor and pulsing until smooth.

*Remove the chicken breasts and top each with 2 slices of both tomato and mozzarella.

*Set the chicken back into the air fryer or oven and cook for 8-10 more minutes until the internal temperature is 165F and the cheese is melted.

*Place the chicken on a plate and top each breast with about two tablespoons of pesto. Enjoy!

Recipe Creator - Alina Gersib