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Today, where we see every form of fashion on our streets, the question of men and shorts still produces uncertainty among many. There is a reason for this that is embedded in our DNA, and to fully understand we need to explore a little history.

“What are the main table manners children should know?” A common question I am frequently asked. Yet I have a tough time narrowing my answer. I pick my top three, then a fourth pops into my mind. Then a fifth. We may not all attend black-tie events, but we do all eat. Your children will one day be placed in a situation where they need to skillfully know their way around a dining table.

As we approach Mother’s Day, I would like to take a special look at the precious women in our lives that hold the title of Mother-in-law. Do you remember the movie Monster-in-Law? It starred Jennifer Lopez and Jane Fonda in a romantic comedy centered around the tumultuous relationship between a bride and her future mother-in-law. If you have not seen it, you should. It will keep you laughing but, sadly, may hit closer to home than you would like to admit.

I recently asked a group of college students these questions showing them the same photos. I had them shout out adjectives for the pictures they were viewing. For the home I heard: beautiful; wealthy; cared for; loving family; a place I want to live. For the broken-down home they said: old; no curb appeal; I wouldn’t go near it; scary; unstable.

“Rules without reason equals rebellion.” -Cynthia Grosso, Charleston School of Protocol. This could be my motto! I have a stubborn streak that can serve me well, but when it gets me into trouble, I just blame it on my DNA. No matter the reason, I am not the best rule follower unless I know why a rule was created. 

Remove your hat! Don’t set it on the table! Never let someone see the lining! Women, keep your hat on! Women, take your hat off! Ahhh…..I’m so confused!!! The old rules of hat etiquette were so straight forward, and everyone knew what to do. A gentleman removing his hat inside a building was as second nature as brushing his teeth. In today’s changing society, there is much confusion about hat etiquette, for both men and women, so let’s solve this mystery by starting with the “why” of hat protocol.

Do you find your spouse often saying, “Are you listening to me?” Or maybe you feel your child is not being an active part of the dinner conversation. If this resonates with you, it might be time to brush up on the finer points of being a good listener, while teaching your family to do the same. Below are 11 tips to help you get back on track so you can start enjoying deeper and more meaningful communication with those you love.

“Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.” (Proverbs 19:11 ESV).


When I am tired and my mind does not seem to focus on a deep study of the Bible, I will flip to Proverbs to keep focused on God’s Word in a more simplistic way. Yet, every time I read this book, I walk away amazed at the power it brings and thankful for the renewal I feel. The verse I read today really resonated with me.

As a stay-at-home mom to 2 toddlers, a large part of my day is spent in the kitchen preparing food. Meal planning at the beginning of the week is essential to ensuring my family is well fed with home cooked nutrition (I give myself a break on the weekends)! If you get overwhelmed with meal planning like I used to, try these tips to sooth your soul:

As a wife and mother of two rambunctious toddlers, it is a challenge to get a home-cooked dinner on the table at a reasonable time. Pulling the children away from their toys, getting them seated at the table, cutting up their meal, blowing on food that is too hot, and calling my husband away from his work can be exhausting.

Sometimes you just need to re-post tips that were great to read. I find myself saying this quite often when it comes to The Gottman Institute. They are some of the leading relationship experts in our country, and the research they did on trustworthiness is very informative.

Meeting friends for dinner after work, grabbing coffee with your girlfriend or just ordering pizza on a Friday night with neighbors. We all have a deep desire to be connected in a world that often forgets the importance of relationships. Many of us have the desire to entertain, but we let our circumstances keep us from extending hospitality. Often it revolves around our lack of confidence in our ability to host events. I get this!

A perfect entertaining year for me would be hosting a different themed party each month! Will I do that? No. Will I dream about it? Yes! If I cannot have a party every 4 weeks, I can at least help my Lisa Lou family with ideas so hopefully a few of you can carry the torch of hospitality for the rest of us.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for. Read that again.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for. Read that again.

You are not allowed to complain about not getting something that you never asked for.

  • Alina Gersib

Key Lime Mousse with Mango Salad and Cream Taste Test

Happy Foodie Friday! These recipes come courtesy of Penny and Eleazar Martinez.

Each of our Taste Test Reviews comes with the original recipe and the tester's notes/changes listed with the ingredient list in blue. We hope you enjoy!

This dessert may be my favorite I have ever made. The key lime throws a tart punch into the dish that pairs beautifully with the sweetness of the mango. The lime zest added a tasty pop to each bite and when I make this recipe again I will add even more zest. Though I love sweet things, after tasting the mousse base, I forwent adding honey to the mangos in the third step as it would have made the dish too sweet for my liking. If you are serving these at a party I would recommend adding a little bit of honey drizzled over the top with a sprig of fresh mint for the presentation. Overall this dessert was refreshing and tangy while still feeling decadent. All in all, a fantastic dish!

Key Lime Mousse with Mango Salad and Cre
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Makes 2 servings

Cook Time: 2 hours and 45 minutes (must chill mousse for 2 hours)

Cost: $10

Ingredients for the mousse:

*1 15 ounce can sweetened condensed milk

*1/2 cup keylime juice

*1 teaspoon gelatine (1/2 an envelope)

*1 cup heavy whipping cream

*2 tablespoons sugar

Ingredients for the graham crumbs:

*1 cup crushed vanilla wafers (or graham crackers)

*1/4 cup melted butter

Ingredients for the mango salad:

*1 mango

*1/4 teaspoon key lime zest

*1 teaspoon honey

Ingredients for the whipped cream:

*1/2 quart heavy whipping cream

*2 tablespoons corn syrup

Preparation for the mouse:

*Soak gelatin in 1/8 cup cool water for 5 minutes.

*Heat sweetened condensed milk and sugar on stove top until it reaches a gentle simmer.

*Add gelatin to heated milk and whisk until combined.

*Add key lime juice to milk/gelatin mix.

*Whisk heavy whipping cream into the other ingredients.

*Place entire mixture into a metal bowl and place in refrigerator to chill for 2 hours.

Preparation for the graham crumbs

*Put graham crumbs in a bowl.

*Melt butter and pour into graham crumbs.

*Toss butter and graham crumbs until it looks like wet sand.

*Set aside to use as garnish.

Preparation for the mango:

*Chop mango into 1/4 inch pieces or smaller and toss with honey and lime zest.

*Set aside.

Preparation for the whipped cream:

*Whip heavy whipping cream and corn syrup to soft peaks.

Assembling the dessert:

*Fill glasses a third of the way up with key lime mousse. Any glass that’s 4-5 ounces will work.

*Place a spoonful of whipped cream on mousse.

*Add a spoonful of mango salad.

*Sprinkle graham crumbs on top of whipped cream.

Recipe and Taste Tester - Alina Gersib