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We could spend hours diving into every aspect of table do’s and don’ts, but I want to give you my top 13 tips that will help you navigate any social or business gathering with confidence.

When God knitted together our precious children before they were even born, I am convinced he also wove in their personalities, gifts, and a love language! The concept of “love languages” is that each of us expresses and receives love in a unique way. The five love languages identified by Gary Chapman in his bestselling book are: Touch, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, and Gifts.

When God knitted together our precious children before they were even born, I am convinced he also wove in their personalities, gifts, and a love language! The concept of “love languages” is that each of us expresses and receives love in a unique way. The five love languages identified by Gary Chapman in his bestselling book are: Touch, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, and Gifts.

Vacations are back on the calendar, and many people are crossing the country through our friendly skies. I thought a refresher on airport and plane travel might do us all a little good.

I heard the most interesting ad the other day. There is a company that offers private-type flights for the commercial world. They describe themselves as a “hop on jet service.” On their website it states, “The convenience of private air but at commercial prices.” I looked them up, and there was one flight from Dallas to Houston for only $99!

“Conflict is part of every marriage. Thirty-seven percent of newlyweds admit to being more critical of their mates after marriage. And 30 percent report an increase in arguments. Whether you argue does not determine the health of your marriage. Far more important than how often you argue is how you argue.

With Father’s Day coming soon, you and your family will be celebrating one of the most important men in your life- Dad. As a child, he was your hero, your protector, and your solid rock. Now that you are older, you admire him for all that he has done for you and you still look to him for advice and wisdom. Picking out the perfect gift for Dad is not easy!

School is almost out for summer! Many of us want to gift our child’s teacher something special at the end of the year for all the love, kindness, and patience they have poured out on our little ones. Being a teacher is not easy, and they are so deserving of our gratitude especially after this wild 20/21 school year! Some common go-to gifts you might have thought of are bath and body products, Starbucks gift cards and mugs, but below are some additional gift ideas your child’s teacher will be touched to receive:

School is almost out for summer! Many of us want to gift our child’s teacher something special at the end of the year for all the love, kindness, and patience they have poured out on our little ones. Being a teacher is not easy, and they are so deserving of our gratitude especially after this wild 20/21 school year! Some common go-to gifts you might have thought of are bath and body products, Starbucks gift cards and mugs, but below are some additional gift ideas your child’s teacher will be touched to receive:

Graduation is a pivotal point in a young person’s life. It is the beginning of a season of responsibility, coming of age, and independence. As these twenty-somethings are about to discover the meaning of “adulting,” here are some gift ideas that will no doubt be a blessing in your college grad’s new life.

If some of you are thinking, “I believe I have read this letter before,” you would be correct. Our son and daughter (in law) had a beautiful wedding ceremony planned for April of 2020. As with thousands around the country, they had to postpone the big event, but chose to hold a private covenant ceremony in our backyard. Well, we are finally celebrating their wedding vows, and it was on my heart to re-post the letter I wrote to my son last year. Some things have changed (he is now 25, not 24 as the letter states), but I hope you enjoy!

 I heard the most interesting ad the other day. There is a company that offers private-type flights for the commercial world. They describe themselves as a “hop on jet service.” On their website it states, “The convenience of private air but at commercial prices.” I looked them up, and there was one flight from Dallas to Houston for only $99! 

“We read a lot of articles and books about how to get through the engagement process, but no one ever talked to us about what it would be like the first year of our marriage. I wish we had known what to expect,” said one of the couples my husband and I mentor. This is a common comment, and if you find yourself having similar feelings, do not fret! You are not alone. The first year of marriage is fabulous, but it can also be difficult. Two people learning to become one does not happen overnight.

We all like to think we have good manners in marriage, but with the people that are closest to us, we can sometimes find ourselves slipping a bit. As stated by Cindy Grosso of the Charleston School of Protocol, manners are not about a bunch of rules. Manners are the outward manifestation of the condition of our heart. If we have a heart that loves, honors, respects, and cherishes our spouse, then these traits will show in how we behave.

Society is opening and people are resuming long overdue vacations. This is great news! I recently posted some tips on making your travels successful, but let’s focus on dos and don’ts of traveling with friends.

 

1. Boundaries: When traveling with others, set guidelines, boundaries, and expectations before leaving town. If you know you and your husband want one night to yourselves, express this up front. If a quiet breakfast in bed is necessary to start your day, see if this fits with the group’s schedule. 

  • Cecelia Zook

Rosemary Crusted Filet of Beef and Asparagus


Happy Foodie Friday! This recipe comes courtesy of Penny and Eleazar Martinez.

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As soon as I read this delicious recipe I was sold! Between the colorful and flavorful herbs and the butter-soaked filet, it was definitely a dinner to remember. My husband and I love cooking filets and always enjoy trying something new. We had never covered our filets in a buttery herb spread, but we will from now on! The red wine sauce really brought everything together. It was rich, creamy, flavorful, and simple. The recipe had all the steps clearly laid out so it was very easy to follow. The asparagus was the cherry on top because it only took minutes to make while the tenderloin was resting. We decided to add mashed potatoes to our meal, but it also would have paired nicely with some mac and cheese, roasted potatoes, or grain rice. 


Rosemary Crusted Filet of Beef
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Makes 6 Servings

Preparation Time: 30 minutes

Cooking Time: 1 hour

Cost: About $45, depending on the size and price of the beef tenderloin


Ingredients for Filet:

*8 tablespoons (1 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature

*2 teaspoons fresh rosemary, minced

*2 teaspoons fresh thyme, minced

*2 teaspoons fresh sage, minced

*2 teaspoons fresh parsley, minced

*2 garlic cloves

*Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper

*1 beef tenderloin, about 4 pounds


Preparation for Filet:

*Preheat oven to 450°F.

*Line a baking sheet with aluminum foil.

*In a food processor combine the butter, rosemary, thyme, sage, parsley, garlic and a large pinch each of salt and pepper.

*Pulse until the mixture is creamy and the garlic is minced and blended into the butter.

*Place the beef tenderloin on the prepared baking sheet.

*Rub the herb butter over the entire surface of the meat (silicone spatula works best).

*Roast until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the center of the meat registers 130F for medium-rare, 40 to 45 minutes (or until done to your liking).

*Transfer the tenderloin to a carving board, cover loosely with aluminum foil and let rest for 10 minutes.

*Cut the tenderloin into 1/2 inch thick slices and arrange on a platter. Place 3 slices on each plate.


Ingredients for the Red Wine Sauce:

*1 bottle of your favorite California red wine (preferably a Cabernet)

*1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar

*1 sprig rosemary

*1 cup beef stock

*1 tablespoon butter

*Salt and pepper, to taste


Preparation for the Red Wine Sauce:

*For the red wine sauce, reserve 1 tablespoon of the steak drippings and place in a pot over medium heat.

*Add red wine, balsamic vinegar, rosemary sprig and thyme sprigs, bring mixture to a rapid bowl.

*Allow wine mixture to reduce until thickened, about 1/4 cup, 3 to 5 minutes.

*Add in beef stock and bring to a rapid boil until the sauce is reduced and thickened to about 1/2 cup, about 4 to 5 minutes.

*Remove rosemary and thyme, discard.

*Turn off heat and whisk in 1 tablespoon of butter.

*Taste the red wine sauce and season with more salt and pepper as desired.

*Garnish steaks with chopped thyme, rosemary and parsley a few minutes before serving.

*Place red wine sauce in separate bowl for guests to use as they wish.



Aspargus
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Ingredients:

*Thick asparagus (you choose quantity of spears)

*Oil, as needed

*Salt and black pepper, to taste

*1 teaspoon garlic powder


Preparation:

*Trim 1 inch off the asparagus from the root side.

*Peel the asparagus and coat with remainder of ingredients (easiest to do this on a sheet pan.)

*Stir well and cook on the grill for 3 to 5 minutes. (Can be cooked in the oven under the broiler for 2 to 4 minutes.)


Recipe and Taste Tester - Cecelia Zook